Monday, October 7, 2013

Off the Wagon

I know, I know.

I fell off the blogging wagon.

Again.

I keep trying this blogging thing and then I keep letting it fall away. I have ideas on what to write about; I guess I just sometimes feel like maybe nobody cares. And it's not that I'm offended if nobody cares about my little, inconsequential life. It's just that because nobody cares, then what does it matter if I get around to blogging or not? It's time consuming. It's hard to feel inspired and find the time. It can be challenging to know where to draw the line on what to share while still being honest. My life isn't all sunshine and roses and I don't want to create that illusion, but the world wide web isn't exactly the proper place to have a full on "woe is me" moment either. My life is pretty good, but it also has some crappy bits. Overall, I'm ecstatically happy because for the most part I have my dad's sunny outlook on life, and because I married the most amazing guy ever who makes me just gush with love every single day (yes, I am disgusting).

So, maybe... what do you want to know? What do you like to read about? I've done recipes, and daily life, and random thoughts in my head, and photo shoots, home decor and crafts, or just highlights when we do something fun or something happens... But what do you want to read about most? If I feel like I'm actually catering to an audience with a purpose, maybe I'll write more.


Or... maybe not. Worth a shot though, right?

7 comments:

  1. I enjoying reading your blog. I like to keep tabs on you. (yes, I blogstalk you) Also, I think we have to be honest in our blogs. One thing I learned from Conference is that everybody has a bad day every once in awhile. Why I agree that you don't want to air your dirty laundry on the internet, I think sharing struggles we have and how we can learn from them and grow from them is great. We never know when we are going to help someone else in a similar situation. I read your blog and think what an amazing writer you are. Seriously. (must be all those books you read growing up) I think you should write what's on your mind and heart. I try to balance out the woe is me and happy moments. Anyways.... my point is. Write what you feel. And I will read it no matter what it is: life's moments, crafts, decorations, what you and the hubby are up too, etc. I'm a good follower :) Hope that helps.... Miss ya (ps I think you should blog recipes too.... like the blueberry scone recipe. That looked YUMMY!

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    1. Oh Amanda - you are so sweet! I think I used to blogstalk you, too, but then you went private. And I thought I was still reading them for a while but now I never see them! Can you add me back to your follower list?

      PS - my mom and I are always talking about how happy you and Matt seem together. :) I wish you lived closer so we could visit!

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    2. I resent you an invite to the blog. I also have this public blog you can stalk www.littlenuggetsoflife.blogspot.com.

      PS you guys are sweet. Thanks. Also we're coming to visit... someday. We keep telling my parents that's where we want to go on vacation. So once we plan it, I'll let you know. PS if Matt goes where he wants for grad school, we'll only be 4 hours away... I'll keep you posted :)

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  2. I have the same feelings as you! I feel like no one ever blogs anymore which is too bad because it's a great way to keep up to date with family and friends.
    My solution is I am that great at writing in my journal so my blog is a way to still document the main events that happen in mine and Justin's life. I do agree that its hard to be 100% honest on a blog that anyone in the world would just read. There are items I wish I could truely discuss in depth about but it's not really appropiate. I thought about going private but I am just not sure.
    As for ideas....hmmmmm I love just the every day stuff that you are up to.
    What did you do during the weekend? What books are you reading that you just have to talk about? etc.

    Good luck!

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    1. Thanks Cara! Maybe I do need to start keeping a journal. I used to when I was in middle school, and it was always entertaining to look back and see what I was thinking and feeling about various things.

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  3. I think what readers want most is just honesty. I know those posts feel like they're boring, but it's the best when you can relate to someone and know that they are real. I love blogging because it's a good way to keep track of my life. Even if no one reads what I post, I want to keep doing it for me. I say write what you feel like you need to write about. If there really is something bothering you, don't be afraid to open up a little. You'd be surprised at how insightful readers can be in offering advice. I love reading what you have to say! :)

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    1. Thanks Kaylie! Sometimes I feel like I just need a little push to keep going. :)

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